Well, I am the one who gets up three to four hours earlier to clean, dust, do chores, bake muffins and breads, make her breakfast, and more.
She makes lunch and dinner, makes all appointments and social arrangements, send all birthday cards, and if I try to do anything after 9:00 PM, she insists that I go to bed. She also won’t let me wash clothes or fold anything.
But we’ve only been married 53 years, so these arrangements might not work out in the long run.